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writes:So long story short, after getting coffee he told me he couldn't date as he only dates Christian girls. Forward two months later and he's acting like we're a couple in everyway. I've been overseas for a month but he's messaging me everyday, saying he misses me, ending messages xox, letting me know he's jealous Im travelling solo with other guys, he's getting me from the airport... we haven't had a sexual relationship beyond kissing and I've made it clear it won't happen. His friends know all about me and he keeps telling me how great he thinks I am and how happy he is. He's given me no indication well start dating but he's acting like we are. I'm scared of being hurt. What's going on? What do I do?
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (17 December 2015):
Do you hope he will be serious about you? Is this why you continue to converse with him? He seems to be serious about dating only Christian girls so maybe you should be serious about forming those kinds of relationships with someone you are actually dating.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 December 2015):
 It seems he feels like he has got some hold over you, he doesn't want you to be with other men but his long term goal is to find a Christian woman to be with, you are not this, so please do not waste your time.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 December 2015):
 He might want to "pretend dating you" long enough to have it turn sexual, but long term? He wants what he wants, and that is a "good Christian" woman. So he'd fool around with yo until he can find that "good Christian" woman whom he will want to marry.
I think you have asked this before and I think the majority told you that you are wasting your time on this guy.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (17 December 2015):
 His long term interest is in a Christian woman, regardless of how much playing around he does now. So just go with that. There is no point in waiting for him to clarify anything.
And I don't trust someone who says one thing but does another.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2015): It's obvious he is struggling to come to terms with his sexuality. It seems he is homosexual however in his culture this is simply not accepted, probably the reason you have never gone as far as kissing one another. Unfortunately for you, you are his cover up for his sexuality, don't get confused, stick with what your instincts are telling you - ditch him and run!
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