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He says they're splitting up, then why does he still have his ring on?

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Question - (3 April 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

About 6 months ago a work colleague of mine, who I have fancied for 2 yrs, told me he and his wife had split up. We met up weekly, and until the beginning of Feb nothing much happened apart from the odd kiss.. One night I got drunk, was sick all over myself, and he offered me to stay with him... I did, slept in the same bed, but nothing happened. Come morning I was caressing his penis, which was erect, but still nothing happened. He still wears his wedding ring. Do you think he is interested or is he taking me for a ride?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2006):

hello please wake up! he is still in a relationship with his wife no man would wear a ring if he was free and single. this does ring alarm bells. he is trying to take you for a ride please dont let him do this to you.

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (3 April 2006):

tux agony auntMy money would be on that he is taking you for a ride. I doubt he'd long that ring so much to keep it on.. I wouldn't trust a guy who's married, who is so willing to be with someone else other than his wife. Unless of course the wife says the same thing that they are seperated. You may just be playing with fire here.. If it's meant to be.. wait until they are for sure completely done with. Otherwise, you'd be in the same boat 6 months from now.

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A female reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2006):

xxxsoulsistaxxx agony auntWell I think only you can find out the answer to this question. You need to ask him straight is he leaving her or not. You're not going to be taken for a ride and you want answers and I think he's the only one who has them.

If he's still wearing his ring, I would be a bit wary. If it's officially over, I don't think he would be doing that so be careful. And definitely don't do anything else sexual with him, then he may start taking you for a fool even more.

I hope this has helped. Be strong and get the answers you need. Good luck.

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