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writes:so my guy and i have been togather for going on four years and we have a 2 month old son.i cooked, cleaned, and took care of his children in which by the way arent mine for a year or so. i had grown attached to them too.the kids recently went to live back with their mother or so i thought. i just found out from a girl in his phone that he has been seeing her for about a year. she said it was over a few months ago but they still talk. then she went on to say how the kids were staying with her for a while before they went back with their mom. to hear her say all those things really hurt me.plus she knew alot about me and all the gifts i had gotten from him within that year she claimed to have gotten too. he was confronted. his answer was she was a cool friend whose house was a chill spot for all the guys. he told me she is a friend of his childrens mother(the mother of the children and i dont get along at all) and since you called her she would play with you because of it. he went on to say its nothing sexual she would call from time to time and she knew so much about me and the gifts he gave because he would often talk to her about me. some times to get advice plus she would hear him and some of the guys talking and would get her info from that he said shes just like that and he doesnt know why. he said he would call her only to see if she had talked to one of his buddies or to see if they were over there when they werent answering their phone shes just like that dont believe her. my question is who should i believe? the father of my child and boyfriend of three going on four years, or the good friend of a girl that doesnt like me? please help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (23 March 2007):
Well, this woman could have said all this as she is good friends with the childrens mum. Her and the childrens mum could have wound you up together. Or he could really have been sleeping with her and he is trying to wriggle his way out. His storey doesnt sound that convinceing. You need to dig deeper, why dont you ask if you can meet this woman so she can tell you face to face that she made it up, or well...perhaps over the phone would be better. I wouldnt beleive him straight off, i would want more proof and reasurrance from him. Also, i would stop him from seeing this woman.
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