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writes: Dear Cupid,In the summer I became really close to my guy neighbor. We've know each other since elementary and our parents are very close friends. But one time it just happened that we made out, and then a month later we lost our virginity together. The thing was that when we were doing it, he stopped and told me that it was wrong what we were doing because of our families. After that happened, we had stopped talking or seeing each other for over a month. I decided to talk to him because it was bothering me, and he told me that "we got lost in the moment and that nothing could happen between us." It hurt me a lot. After that I've been trying to keep myself busy and tyring my best to avoid him. ButI just can't stop thinking about him and even have dreams over him. I even have dreams about having sex with him. I don't know what to do anymore because even though that happened between us, I still want to be his friend. Please give me advice, I would really appreciate it. Thank You. Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (17 October 2005):
 I realise you feel a lot for this guy and he did take your virginity which makes us feel even more for them. I do think he was unfair stopping half way through, after taking your virginity. Your first time should be perfect and he should have thought more deeply before getting 'caught up in the moment'.
If he is never going to be with you, you need to start getting over him. Tell him how you feel and see what he says. Have a proper conversation, in private, just the two of you and find out what you both want. I'm sure he's just confused, not trying to mess with you purposely so find out what's going on. Then, if you want different things, you can both move on and, if not, work something out. Good luck
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