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writes:I'm a 40-something childless divorcee who has been dating a 40-something childless divorcee for three years. I love him, I'm attached to his family members and ready to get married. But, he's not sure when or if he'll be ready. "Maybe 3 or 4 years from now", he says. I feel as if I am being strung along. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): hi i was hearing the same from my boyfriend, we have been together for two years and wanted to get engaged.He proposed and now i feel like he has only done it for me.If you put pressure on him to marry you will only feel the same.I asked my boyfriend why he proposed,he said to make me happy.I got divorced 3 years ag and have two children,i wanted the feeling of secruity agan,but belive me if you put pressure on you wont feel any different.Just wait and see what happens if you dont mention marriage for a while and if he really loves you, is marriage so important? sometimes people think getting married improves things but sometimes it causes more problems.best of luck.
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