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writes:Hi, I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend 20 we been dating for almost 10 months officaly but we been talkinng over a year now. he knows everything about me n i about him..im a jelous freak also n he is a lil only. He says sweet stuff once in a while. I love him with all my heartn he says he loves me also. he tells me i'm the one for him and etc. we fight about dumb stuff often.but i have a problem i really want to believe him what he says but coming from a father who always cheated on my mother..makes it hard to believe. I dont believe a guy at his age can love a girl. he says he wants to make love to me and im a virgin but i tld him i want to wait and ill let him knw. he said he'll wait for me cuz he loves me. I know we are both young. but what do you think of this relationship?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): if he is willing enough to wait for you then he will n will not cheat on u or try n rush u into it all etc: or if he is not willing enough 2 wait then he may either try n rush u into it all or start n cheat on uor lose interest in u all together etc: jst go with what your instincts tell u.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): if he is willing to wait until you r ready he will but if he is just sayin that then he will probs either move on or try it on wid u 2 c if he can get u into bed or not. good luck
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reader, azrael7 +, writes (22 December 2009):
What you need to look at is if "you" trust and love him. It is entirely possible for someone to be in love at 20 yrs old and we can tell you what we think you should do but it is up to you to determine how you feel. Do you believe that he is sincere when he says he loves you? The fact that he will wait for when you're ready shows a lot about how he feels.
Honestly I think you should talk to him about this, tell him your fears and what you are thinking. The talk will help because he might have fears that he wants has about the relationship.
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