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writes:Ive met someone who is a family friend of my partners family -last year we got close and he would tell me how attractive I was - he was all over me, we would arrange to meet up(which wasnt often) - we did not sleep together but would cuddle up and he was really really turned on. This year in April , we met up in public and he was affectionate, would hold my hand and kiss he expressed concerned that he was old for me (im mid forties and he is approaching sixty) Since then we have just texted (he has told me from the beginning for me to text first because of his texts falling into the wrong hands) When I text he replies instantly, and if I text that I miss him, he would say we will meet up soon(this has happened a few times), but we never do, I have to wait for him to say when and where. If I write i would love to see you, he'll put me too. He expresses he wants to meet up but never says when . I dont want to question him because I will appear too pushy. Could he be feeling guilty because he is a family friend of my partner, if so why start it in the first place. I know he likes me because of the way he is when we are together, is it because he feels he is too old (I am a very young looking for my age). Im in an unhappy relationship and he knows this. Im hurting everyday because I dont want to loose him, and I dont why Im suddenly not seeing him like I did last year. If he had slept with me (although it did come close) Id say he just wanted to get me into bed. He knows how much I care for him so why put me through this, Id rather he just told me straight up, its like he's keeping me hanging on- if he wasnt interested why reply to my texts within a minute, why say lets meet soon if he doesnt mean it. Im desparately unhappy and dont know what to think.
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reader, 19agegap  +, writes (14 July 2009):
i'm in the same situation! and i have no idea what the guy wants! except maybe he's just not that into you?
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