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**vicki**
writes: i just want to know if this is normal or if im making a big deal out of nothing.my fiance used to have some adult dvds and look at websites before he met me. before me he had never had a girlfriend and said he basically relied on it as he had needs too. he doesnt do any of this now.is it normal for single men to do this?
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reader, Jerry B  +, writes (21 June 2007):
Perfectly normal...its definitely a guy thing. Even if he does it now, its not cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): Yes if he did it before he was getting laid on a reg. basis is normal. My boyfriend never got any before he met me and I found an old cable bill of his and he had ordered some porn movies, but he doesn't do it now. So don't worry.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Perfectly normal like he said he had needs to and it's better that than sleeping arond with all sorts just to get satisfaction, and if he does not do it now he obviously gets what he needs from you.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): Looking at porn is normal. Normal for single AND attached guys. Your fiancee probably still looks at porn on the internet/dvds/magazines. Its normal, don't take it personally.
You could also think about watching it together, if it is something he is into, he would probably be THRILLED if you wanted to explore a little.
Personally, I draw the line if the partner uses porn to the expense of the other partner (ie - not interested in sex but interested in masturbating to porn). THAT is offensive, otherwise an apprecition of porn is pretty healthy and normal.
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