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*attie90
writes:hi all.... i have a question ok im madly in love with my boyfriend and he tells me he loves me all the time but sometimes he says it with sarcasm and it makes me think is he just saying it to make me happy? but also we have been trying to get pregnant since september of 07 and we havent yet and it worries me is he doing something to make him infertile. its just a crazy rollercoaster because one minute he tells me he loves me and i know he means it but then one minute he says it sarcastically. we have also talked about being with each other forever and he has asked me to marry him with no ring ok i'll wait till he has enough money to get the ring no rush but when will that time come? i need to know if he does love me because i'm so confused? please help me thank you everyone
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008):
Why don't people ever understand that getting married should preceed trying to purposely get pregnant?
It's not all about some 3000-year-old religious teaching. Demanding marriage before trying to get pregnant is just a good test of whether or not your partner is even serious about staying with you for life.
There is absolutely no reason not to do it. Just doing a little legal ceremony & papers doesn't cost much. If the couple can't gather up the time & money & commitment for that stupid little formality and piece of paper when it's necessary, then how are they supposed to raise a child?
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 I suggest you hold on before you get pregnant, because babies do not always strenghen a relationship. Have you guys sat down and discussed the future properly? There is no rush to commit yourselves take one day at a time before you do anything hasty and bring a baby into the world.
Does he want a child? Have you actually asked him? Do not trap him if he is not ready for fatherhood, or this may freak him out and make things worse, You have all the time in the world to settle down so slow down and enjoy each other for a time being.
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