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*aclnc
writes:my boyfriend and i live together, he says he loves me, but shows me no respect for my house or things, and gets upset over the smallest things. i don't understand, can anyone help me to understand why he is like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (27 June 2008):
 If you let this continue, he will get worse, and he will control you with this attitude. There is no reason you should feel like you are walking on egg shells. Tell him, if he doesnt change, you will change things for him.Honestly, do you want to be with a person like that???
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reader, saclnc +, writes (27 June 2008):
saclnc is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes i have tried to talk to him, but he gets mad and tells me to go away. he stays upset for days, and says when he is ready to talk he'll let me know. also if i do something to upset him, like little things, go to store and not tell him he is mad for days. would do i do
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (26 June 2008):
Sometimes people behave badly because they are holding negetive feelings and need an outlet. Have you tried asking him if there is anything he wants to talk to you about? Be a calm person that he can talk to. He might be hanging on to some issues that are causing him to freak out.
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