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writes:My boyfriend of two years broke up with me last night. I am very confused because he was just talking about how much he loves me and how he will never leave me. He told me I will hear from him in the next couple of days. I am upset he is asking me to wait for him but at the same time I know and understand he needs time to think. Am I letting myself get played?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): i hear you girl. Men are so complicated. My boyfriend just broke up with me, finally snapped after one too many arguments. He went bolistic and has finished it. We still live together and are now more into each other cos the pressure has lifted. He still wants freedom and to be single, so i'm also in limbo. We both are crazy for each other but are too stupid to make it work . Love doesnt conquer all, its crap. Its about respect and freedom to be you. Hold your head up high and go with the flow, thats all you can do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): I know how you feel, my boyfriend and I have been dating a year and a month. He told me the other night that he wanted to be free, he told me I did nothing wrong I was the best girlfriend he ever had, he said he still has a lot of love for me and still cares for me a lot. I feel just as confused as you. He also said that he is not sure he made the right decision. I am asking myself the same question as you what do I do? wait for him? I have so much love for this boy that I will wait for him, I will wait for him forever. So I think that if you have a lot of love for this boy then believe that he will come back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI tried calling him tonight and he picked up saying he doesnt really want to talk to me. He said maybe he will call me tomorrow. I honestly believe he is not doing me wrong (is that possible? he broke up with me already), but I always seem to ride on the worst possible situation. I miss him and want to see him so bad. I feel I am obsessed with this boy!
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reader, cyclemeover +, writes (30 June 2007):
There could be a myriad of reasons why he needs to be alone. Its kind of hard to speculate on this. But just because he wants some alone time it doesnt mean he's breaking up with you. He obviously felt a need to reassure you that he will be back so if you have that trust established I say you just wait and see what happens.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (30 June 2007):
 You say he is your boyfriend of two years.
Meaning you should know him better by now.
So what happened last night? Maybe you had a quarrel with him.
"he is asking me to wait for him but at the same time I know and understand he needs time to think"
My opinion on this situation is that YOU need time to think whether you should wait for him.
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