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writes:Well I have an ex-boyfriend I've known for 7 years. He was and still is one of my closest friends. We had started to date he said he has finally realized who was important to him. I of course say yes when he asks me out. Things go good right from the start with us. It was like he was my other half. We always had fun. It was pretty awesome. He even took me to the senior prom. But a month after we started to date he started to grow distant and called me one night to say he wanted to break up. First of all I agreed...I didn't want to keep someone in a relationship when they don't want to be in it. So we broke up and it was like we never dated at all. Let me clarify this I'm in love with this guy, but when we first broke up it didn't really hit me. Until two months later. Here I cam crying. So I write him a letter and mention it to him. So he cons it out of me and I let him read it. I mainly stated how the break up just hit me and that I love him, but if we don't get back together again I'm fine with friendship. It's better then nothing. He replied and said he doesn't know how he feels about me at the moment. He said he feels like he has no emotions at times. He even said he doesn't know if we will get back together, but he wouldn't count it out. Then he told me about his past of seeing his mom being beaten by his dad when he was a child. (By the way his dad is out of the picture.) He doesn't see why he deserves to be loved by me. One day he's distant from me and the other he's this sweet guy asking if I can talk. I see his good sides, but he doesn't. I love this guy. But I don't know if I can keep waiting for him. He's the only guy I've ever loved. I don't even know how to get over him. I would like to know your opinions. Should I say good-bye for good? Or should I wait? I just don't know what to do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2011): When a guy says he doesn't deserve you or your love it simply means he doesn't WANT YOU or what you have to give. Learn this now and spare yourself alot of grief. You can't be friends if you are in love with him...he's your EX.
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