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writes:I've been seeing this guy for 9 months we have never been out on a date we just have sex, he tells all about his past relationships, I love him and don't want to love him because I don't believe he loves me because he has never said it neither does he shows it. He says it's because of what he went through with the others and that's he's stress, Im not buying, so how do I stop loving and caring about this man. Reply to this Question
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reader, myx shootingstar +, writes (11 July 2009):
 Well, I was kinda in the same position as this man was once. And you should buy it. He obviously has some sort of attraction to you and feelings to keep up a sexual relationship. What someone like that needs is someone to show them that they actually care. So stick around. If your happy with him then why depribe yourself of happiness? You never know what the future holds. Give him some time. He's obviously gotten his heart broken once or twice. It'd be nice for him to see that you're sticking around. Best wishes
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 He probably sees you only as a friend. Perhaps you are just not his type so he made up that weird excuse. Distance yourself otherwise you'll end up being hurt. I once got involved with a man, assuming he'd eventually feel the same for me. He never did treat me well because his heart wasn't in it. I wish you the best.
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reader, DebbieLovesYou +, writes (3 July 2009):
 In my opinion I think you should just stop talking to him and stop seeing him. Avoid talking to him on the phone or anywhere else like internet. You deserve wsay better than to just have a guy for sex. You love him and all he's doing is using you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): Well first off you have to stop seeing him. It's smart of you to realize he's just after the sex and that at this point if he hasn't said it, he won't. The main thing is to just occupy yourself with other things. Date other people, hang with friends, just stop seeing him. Hopefully getting over him will be quick and as painless as possibly. Good luck!
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