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writes:dear cupid, im confused! i was talking to this guy who i really like, and a while ago (about 5months) he said he liked me too, i do have a boyfriend! last night i was wondering about me and this other guy..(im thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend..but no i wont cheat) i asked him if he still felt the same way and he told me i shouldnt wonder because i have a boyfriend...what does that mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): Sorry, but he is probably thinking your a cheating little bitch who couldn't be trusted. If you are asking him those questions when you already have a bf. Decide which you want - to be single to go out with anyone (and maybe get yourself a reputation) or a bf. Remember the grass isn't always greener on the other side, just different, jump the fence and you could end up in a load of cow poo.
Take care
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (15 March 2007):
Hes saying, you should not be asking this as you have a boyfriend. You shouldnt be ''wondering'' if he still likes you if your with someone else. If you like him then break up with your boyfriend and then see how this guy feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): You have to be really be careful here. Your actions are telling this guy you like, something about you, that has him thinking. He's telling you that if you are looking to date other people, why haven't you considered the feelings of your current bf? He could be thinking.."would she do the same to me if I date her?" Hun, be honest and do the right thing. Before you even approach another guy about dating you- the most fair thing you can do, is break it off with your current bf, first, so he can move on? You can't play with people's feelings like and just hang onto one poor guy until a better offer comes along! Simply put--you are in a relationship- you are not available to date other people. I think you need to make a big decision. If I were you, I'd break up with the current bf and go it alone for awhile, just until you get your feelings sorted out. It appears you want to flit from relationship to relationship without careful thought to the people you could deeply hurt. You're young, enjoy life and take your time making decisions about dating, but stay honest, open and true to yourself and others. That is what other people will take note about you. Good luck and stay strong.
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