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*reenandpink
writes:He was my sister's friend so thats how we met. We really liked each other and he asked me out. We've been doing great so far! When we are just hanging out we talk and laugh like best friends, and make out and hug. When i met some a couple of his friends he held my hand in front of them and introduced me. He's a really nice guy and so sweet. The problem is..im 14 and he's 17. He said he doesn't care and obviously i don't. But recently he told me that if anyone asks me if i'm going out with him, to say we're just friends. So my question is, does he really like me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 March 2012):
 do your mom and dad know you have a 17 year old boyfriend?
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reader, Greenandpink +, writes (28 March 2012):
Greenandpink is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much guys ! And we do actually go out and just talk and luagh (: and i think i am going to ask him if we can actually tell people and why i shouldnt be able to ! Hes my boyfriend right? Thanks so much guys! Tell you what happens! :D
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 March 2012):
“we make out and hug”… so you are physical when you are together…
He’s 3 years older than you…. Does he take you out or only spends time with you when you can be physical?
If he tells you to LIE to folks and only tell them you are friends then I’m betting he doesn’t really like you but rather is waiting for the day you will move forward from just hugging and kissing to petting and maybe sex…..
He’s using you honey… learn this early.. MEN that love their women SHOUT it from the rooftops…
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012): Hello "GreenandPink" - I think the reason he's asking you to say you two are just friends is because he is much older than you and, even tho' he won't admit it, he knows it's not right for the two of you to be boyfriend and girlfriend.You should NEVER accept being "hidden" or made someone's "secret". If he truly cared he'd be shouting it from the rooftops and proud for everyone to know about you. After all, you'd want to be able to tell everyone about him, wouldn't you?Don't accept what's he's offering you - you are worthy of better. I'm not saying he's a bad guy, but I think the timing is definitely not right for you two. Oh, and one last thing, you should definitely not be making out with someone who isn't officially (and that means the whole world knows!) your boyfriend.
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