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writes:dear cupid,there is a guy i liked and he asked me out i said yes we broke up after 6 days.the reson why is he said we bearly talked and he is about to ask me out again what should i say?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Are you really 26-29? I'm not trying to be a jerk, but this sounds like a much "younger" problem, one that I would have faced in middle school/high school.
So, I agree with "It's all be okay", at least if you're as old as you say you are, If you're younger, I still mostly agree with her, but maybe you do need to learn to relax and let down your guard. Don't be afraid to be "friends" with your boyfriend and talk to him!! Maybe you're shutting down whenever you're in front of him due to nerves and you just sit there like a statue. So, consider loosening up and practicing relaxing.
Good luck, sweetness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): If you think it's true that you barely talked, think to yourself about why that was. Were you not comfortable with him yet? Or are you not that talkative a person?
Then, if you think he's worth the trouble, tell him why you didn't talk much.
But I would also tell him that in a relationship you'd like each person to be allowed the chance to get fully acquainted with the other and that you don't think 6 days was giving it a fair shot!
See, when you respect a person and you really like them, you don't dismiss them before you get to know them. You hang in there, even after some unsavory details about them rear their ugly heads. You stick around long enough to see who they are, that they might not be the fantasy you built them up to be, and only then decide whether or not you like and accept them for who they really are.
Then, if you can like and accept them indefinitely, for the long-haul, as who they really are, you might just be in love. :)
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reader, It's all be okay  +, writes (26 April 2010):
It's quite hard to understand your question: 1. A guy asked you out and you went on a date.2. 6 days later you broke up? Do you mean that he called you and said he didn't want another date? Or did you have dates in those 6 days and then he said he didn't want any more? 3. He is about to ask you out again? Has he asked you out again? Or if he is about to, how do you know that he is about to? Is he telling someone else?It's a very confusing question. However, if you go on a date with someone, and they say that they don't want to see you again because you barely talked, and then they ask you out again, you just say no. Why would you want to see someone who is starting the potential relationship by dissing you?
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