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female
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30-35,
*akeItOrLeaveIt
writes:My boyfriend and i had been going out for 2 months. It was really serious and i loved him a lot. He dumped me a week before valentines day because he said i didnt put enough effort into the relationship. When he dumped me he said i must see it more as a very long break. I was very confused but i agreed to wait for him. Last night i found out he has a new girlfriend. It's been 4 days since he broke up with me!! :( what happened to "we'll be together forever.. i just need some time right now. i promise i love you and always will"Should i keep fighting for him and make him want me back? cos i reli do love him! Or should I just move on, as hard as it will be. cos after all... he reli hurt me!
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reader, NuttyGooner  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 Let's see, he lied to you, hurt you in the cruelest way, strung you along for a while, dumped on your feelings (and before Valentine's Day, what timing!), and moved on pretty sharpish...Move on, you sound like a kind and caring girl, find someone who deserves you (obviously not that prat!). You know it's going to be tough, I guess you've prepared yourself for that response...Good luck *hugs*
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): He lied to you, making you feel maximum pain. Move on, after all it looks like he has. Get yourself a boy who will treat you with respect and won't go and get himself another girlfriend behind your back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): well, I don't know much about relationships... but i think that fighting it could just make matters worse. i would leave it as is, and find someone else.
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