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writes:Last night me and my bf of 8 months were in bed and he was talking about what he wants. Hes studying at uni and got just over a year to go. The job he is going to get from it he will be earning from 120 000 to 200 000. His job will mean him going away for a couple of weeks at a time. He said he wasnt a nice big house a boat and just to be able to go fishing etc when he has his time off and hell be happy. He also said he needs a good girl like me because being away for weeks at a time hell need someone he can trust. But he also said he would want to get a prenup so if anything happened his gf or whatever couldnt sue him. This was after watching what happened to tiger woods n his wife getting so much. He also joked about being like charlie sheen and havin a few gfs on the side then i said so would that mean i get a few toy boys too then he was like i was only joking. What does this mean?? Wouldnt you rather marry someone for love?? Am I taking this too seriously. Reply to this Question
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (2 April 2011):
 Money does not buy happiness, but it buys the chance for happiness. On the opposing side of the original response in this thread, marrying a rich man that loves you for you and is secure, etc. is better than marrying a poor man that loves you the same that is just as secure. However, if you do not have the love or feel that it is something that might not be there, then you definitely need to give it second thoughts. I honestly see this person as someone with an inflated ego, before he even starts his job!I would be wary of this guy at least. At most, I would suggest breaking it off.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (2 April 2011):
 It's kind of worrisome, but not reason to leave or panic yet. You need to keep an eye on him though. He sounds like he's at risk for becoming an egomaniac. Like Janniepeg said, both Charlie Sheen and Tiger Woods were disrespectful to women, expecting undying devotion from their families while they got a little something on the side. In other words, women don't deserve respect. Be careful with this one.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 April 2011):
 What do Tiger Woods, Charlie Sheen and other successful men have in common? They have a wonderful family, can spend money on anything, and still they are not satisfied? They look at women as gold diggers who love them for their money and that's it. Women are also property and are expected to be faithful while they have a few girls on the side. Why, because making all that money entitles him that freedom, and the wives should just be happy they are still married. I read articles about rich, successful men doing dumb things to sacrifice their reputation such as drugs, multiple cheatings or abusing their families. Psychologists study them and find out reasons to lead to their destructive paths. Rich and successful men feel trapped in their roles, they live under this happy rich man's facade but very lonely inside, so they felt the only alternative way to get out of it is to become a loser. They feel that their wives don't see the real them. Somehow only drugs and the perfect elusive woman outside can understand them.
I would rather marry someone I love, and not someone with an inflated ego. Rich people have issues, poor people have issues. Getting all the money you need doesn't necessarily make you a happier person.
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