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writes:heyi am 18 broke up with my boyfriend in december and i am still in love with him. i want to be his girl again so i asked him how he felt and he said he still loves me loads but dosnt want to go out with me how do i get him back into my life as my boyfriend i would rather die than b without him please help keileighxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): You probably hurt him more than you know in the past. Who broke up with who? If it was you then he doesn't want to go down that past again, does he? If it was the other way, then he may have issues with you that he knows haven't and won't change. Often its best not to go back. Just cut your losses, walk away and find someone single and who is committed to you. There are loads of lovely blokes out there and you do deserve to be happy. But don't dwell over what you had. Think of what you can have.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 February 2007):
 This is a hard question to answer without knowing a few things. Who broke up with who? If you broke up with him it comes down to trust issues. He's probably not willing to let you back in his life in case you hurt him again. If he broke up with you there was a definite reason behind it which he may or may not have told you. Unless that reason has since disappeared that's whats keeping him away now. If it was mutual it could be a mix of either of the above. If he doesn't want to get back with you then it's just as well you accept it. You're doing yourself and your boyfriend no good by hanging onto something that isn't there anymore. When you say you would rather die are you actually having suicidal thoughts because if so you need to get help for that too. Try calling the samaritans, they're really helpful. And remember, even though it's horrible people break up every day. You can hang onto what was and hurt or you can let it go and gradually the pain gets less. It's a straightforward choice.
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