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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex has been begging for me to take him back for months. I recently found out that while he has been telling me how much he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me, he's been dating someone else, and telling her he was falling for her. She found out what he was telling me, and broke up with him. Now he's trying to get back with both of us (I think). I'm absolutely devastated because I love him and was starting to think of giving him another chance, but now I doubt how much he could love me if he's trying to get back with me and someone else at the same time. How do I move on when a part of me still wants him so badly?
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (3 June 2007):
Your EX doesn't seem to know what he wants outside of the bedroom. Don't see as any of his relationship are going to be anything but sourmilk affairs. The anonymous repy was right on, good advice. Perhaps any woman to your Ex is just another notch on his manhood. Lots of us men, perhaps most of us equate sex with love, and many women will call a man's Sexual- Drive "LOVE", but it's not. And many of us men just want our orgasmic pleasure, regardless if we meet she sexual needs or not. Welcome to the human MALENESS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007): Well as I can see it, he asked you to get back with him, you didn't so he was seeing another girl. Maybe it was a strategy to get you jealous, many guys do this but they don't realise how much it hurts a partner when they play these silly games. You want him badly, so tell him you want to give it a second chance.But it must be on your terms and that if he even thinks of seeing anyone else then he is history. Why did you split up in the beginning? was it because he was cheating on you? If it was because he was cheating then I would leave him well alone.
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