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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok so 9 month ago i met this guy, we started seeing each other, but it ended up lasting for 5 month until we actually made it official and whenever i told him to choose wheather he wanted me or not he would argue and tell me never to talk to him again, yet he'd always apologise a few days later.But then one day we actually made it official it lasted 3 month and he ended it because he said we didnt know much about each other, we didnt talk for a month and when i saw him again he asked if we could try to get to know each other then start dating. A week later we were at a party where he fetched a girl way younger than him to the party and started bragging about how he slept with her, and it felt like he was rubbing it in.we argued and havent spoken since until last night when he apologised and told me he was sorry because he had commitment issues.i don't know what to do i've fallen for him so hard.should i try to make this work? or leave it and move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): move on, sometime we have to cut our loss. He's a player and is playing games with you. He keeps you off balance and that I why you think you love him so much. There is not that much love for anyone who would disrespect you. Think of it this way you do not have to be with everone you love. Love him from a distance and find someone else that will respect and love you.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (19 August 2008):
 If he is around the same age as you, he will have comitment issues. But if you ask me, he also has 'acting like an adult issues' as well.
Move on darling, plenty more fish in the sea. You just have to sort the worms fom the actual fish LOL
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): It sounds as if this guy is very immature and needs to grow up;
I suggest you MOVE ON;
Find somebody that will LOVE and RESPECT you; this guy obviously does not know the meaning of those words;
I don't think that having difficulty with commitmnet is his only issue;
I suggest you stop wasting your time with him; no mtter how difficult it might be; try to froget about him; I am sure there must be lots of nice guys out there that will be happy to have somebody like you in there life.
DUMP HIM.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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