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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone I'm a bit confused. I've meet this guy through a friend and I've been told he likes me. I heard him say it for himself, when my mate had him on speker phone. Anyway, I've only meet him twice and last nite meet up with him again and we got along good. But, he said he didnt want to rush into a relationship as he just split with him ex lastweek. It's also the mother of his child although he said he won't go back with her. I'm worried that he said he wants to get to know me better, but there is also the fact that he may get back with his ex because of the child, even tho she was horrible to him sometimes.I understand that he dosn't want to rush into anything and get to know me more, but since I'm new to relationships and stuff, I'm not sure if he means it. Any advice?Thank you x
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reader, Honor +, writes (15 February 2008):
I think that this is the right approach into this relationship. Seeing as it has only been a week rushing into any relationship would be wrong. And you do not want to end up being a rebound.So this way you will get to know each other and take things slowly at your own pace. You have only been on a couple of dates so at this stage you shouldnt really be thinking about settling down in something serious just yet. Just enjoy spending time with each other and getting to know each other better.It is difficult if he does have a child with this woman, but also the fact that they split up means there was an actual reason for this happening. So it doesnt necessarily mean he will get back with her. But if your relationship does progress with you both you will also have to accept his ex will always be part of his / your lives no matter what as a child is involved.GOod luck! x
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