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writes: Hi I am 17 and I have been dating a guy for 2 months a like a week and everything was going okay till a couple days ago when we hardly talked well yesterday i fnally talked to him for lik 31 minutes where he said he don't know if he loves me and his brain is just like that and blah blah, he says he still has feelings for me he just doesn't know if he loves meand he doesn't know if he wants to break up with me and is just tired of having to look at the time to call me or get a call from me.And I love him so much i have never cried over a guy knowing i might lose him only him. But when we were talking nad i was like just tell me know if your gonna dump me he just says your making me decide right now and i waslike yeah he said he can't just decide now he needs to think about and it has hapened to him before with another girl and they broke up. Cause we are hardcore in love he says he has never loved someone as much as me and I want to know what should i do give him time or dump him now and do you think he is gonna break up with me or find out that he realy does love me he just nedded space for a couple days cause we spend like every day together for the whole two months except a couple days when he wennt to his step dads and hung out with his friends but we still talked
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): im in the same situation and it is horrible not knwing whether a guy wants to be with u i understand how u must feel. at the momment all of my boyfriends friends are telling me to give him his space so he will realise how much he loves me so that wat i am doingonly texting him in the morning to say have a good day thats it. and according to his mates he is gettin upset im not textin him and chasing him so it does workgive him his space and he should realise he cares about u and wants u. but if he doesnt then he isnt worth crying over, there always someone better out there. But for now keepyour head up and give him his space.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2006): I'm sorry you are so stressed out. You can be grateful he cares enough to be honest with you. That shows respect. Please don't take this the wrong way, in fact it's an observation - nothing more, you are 17 and have only been seeing each other two months. I hope you find some security in knowing that he cares enough to be straight with you even though you are a young couple who have only been dating two months. You have a long life ahead of you. Many things will happen. Learning how to relax in relationships is hard. You come across as a female with a full and loving heart who is learning how to love. That's awesome. If he is smart, he will continue to be honest with you and your relationship will grow.
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reader, dolly peg +, writes (1 September 2006):
hi babe,how old is your bf?if hes around 17,like you are,you have to remember that boys take longer to mature,it sounds to me as though he just needs space,and if he really does love you he wont dump you at all,just be patient with him,and give him some space and time to sort his head out,hope it all works out the way you hope it does.
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