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writes: i really need your help :0( iv been unofficially on and off with a guy for about 8 months now, but hes really messing with my head :0(wev both been with other people because we arnt actually seeing each other, just having sex, however theres so much more between us, and iv really fallen for him!!!!!i dont understand him tough-he txts me and asks me what im up to/if im out, then doesnt text me back again. He always rings me when hes drunk( i always ring people that i like when im drunk) does this mean he likes me as more than just for sex?hes leaving soon so i probably wont see him agian, but at the moment hes all i think about.please dont tell me to talk 2 him about it, because that wouldnt be at all comfortable!!plase be honest with me.thanku :0)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): Ok hun,He might like u tjough there is a chance he just is using u 4 sex!
U should try playing him at his own game texting him asking him wat he's doin nd then not texting him bak, then c wat his reaction is nd that will b ur answer!
I hope this helps!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): Hi, if he is calling you all times of the night, asking what you are doing and you know he is drunk, he is not seeing you? Do you want to be treated as the booty call? Nothing is worse than waking up knowing you did what you did and he is either gone or waiting for the next text/call? He makes you feel special at the time, but you are better than night...remember how you feel the next day? A real relationship is caring for you, going out one on one with no sex, etc...not how you feel in a strange house with him gone or wondering when the next text will be..you are better than that! I've done it lots and LOTS of times. It is awful and makes you feel like shit, don't do it, don't respond.
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