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writes: I dont know what to. I have officially been with my boyfriend for 7 months, but before that were sort of together for 9 months, but never made it official due to me moving away away to france and being away at university. However i got back from france after 3 months and we realised we were completely in love with each other and made it official. We both knew i would have trouble trusting him due to his past, but agreed with work and time it would be ok, but there have been contant problems with him texting other girls which he promised he would stop. 3 times i have found out now. Most recently i found out that he has been texting a girl who he had a one night stand with last year. it hurt me mostly because i read a text where he asked her if she wanted him to pick her up so they could go for a ride to the lighthouse! and he sent if after i sent him a nice message saying how much i lov him and glad we r together, which has completely destroyed me! he said he hasn't been seeing her, jus texts and promises to stop. but what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2006): hi pet
i had the same problem with my boyf....we had so many rows over it and eventually he stopped..we are together 4 years now...maybe you should just get him to sit down and talk to you and see has he any problems with commiting to you...i just tod my boyf exactly how i felt about him and him texting other girls i made it clear i wouldn't put up with it....after a week of just talking once he realised he wanted to stay with me and not risk it for anything...everything is super between us now....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2006): Give him a last chance. If he does it again, leave. I mean, come on, you come onto DC.org, and you have this obvious problem with him texting and communicating with other women. You say you love him and he loves you - the whole spiel, but in the end, you don't want it like this. If it hurts that much, you know exactly what to do. If you're cool with it, then fine, stay.
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