He promised to get rid of the other gf...but now he acts like he doesn't care! What can I do?

hi! i just wrote a few days ago. I just want to tell the whole story. My ex-bf and i, we've been together for almost 5 years. just a few mos ago we broke up. he cheated on me and he says that the reason why he did that is my attitude, im a nagger, im not sweet, im not concerned... i admit it was my fault. He's new girl is the one who court him, even when we're still together this girl is like a stalker who knows everything. she went to my bf school and other stuff. last october 15, i just knew that they/re together. my ex-bf admits that he and the girl have a relationship already and even had sex but at first they denied it that they just have their relationship when we broke up. My ex-bf even watch movie with her even we still on, he entertain her till 4am drinking together. I beg him to come back to me but he choose to be with the girl. one day we have a chance to talk and he told me everything, about his negative feelings, he even told me that the reason why he stop his review is because of me and he also told me that his graduation is for me. That night we ended up being friends. when he got home, the girl is so angry with him, she drink a lot. Morning came, my ex-bf called me asking me if im okay and he cried out loud saying "baby, im sorry, i thought i could give you anything but i cant" her mom even ask him if he did not love me anymore and he tells to them that he llove me so much while holding the letter that i gave him.we we're okey then, we slept togethrt and when we woke up, he told me that he miss the other girl and he's freaking out to see the other girl. I slept again into their haus, because he tells me that he needs me. He even ask me to give him a blow job twice and we even had sex that night, that time i was so desperate because i love him so much.. when we woke up the other day, he even ask me if i want to marry him and of course i said yes... he promised me that he will let go with the other girl. Then i went home to change my clothes and after a few hour i go back to their haus then suddenly again his mind change.. he told me that he love me but he doesn't know why he can't fight for me. he made a lot of promises to me but he did'nt do anything. His family dont like the other girl. he dont even bring the girl inside their house they're just stayed outside. by the way, the girl live in the same building where my ex-bf and his family live, she move their the first time he saw my bf thats why he knows everything. Now the girl is doing everything, the things that my ex-bf want me to do before for him. he dont let my ex-bf talk to me. she got so jealous. Whenever i call him sometimes he get mad, sometimes he's nice. He even told his mom to stop communicating with me because he said their just giving me hope. and he even told to his mom that he has no feelings to me anymore. But before I go here in canada, i give him a scrapbook, all our pictures were there, small stuff, a pillow that has a caption "thank you" a CD and a letter. and his sister told me that all the gifts that i gave to him was all in his bed, and he dont even want to give even the ballpen that i gave to him. What does it mean? do he still love me? do he miss me too? coz i love him more now, and i miss him so much. i told him already all my feeling that i love him so much and i miss him. Her sister told me that he seems happy with the girl rght now. please need help.. i cant afford to lose him forever.

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