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writes: i've been married for two years, everything has been like a honeymoon since we got married but now just our skin touching or my hand on his hand and he moves away just the simple touch and he moves .why? Reply to this Question
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reader, Amethyst  +, writes (9 August 2006):
 Uh oh...
There are a multitude of reasons as to why this could be happening...
I'll just name off a few, just to give you some ideas as to what to think on...
1) He's in a rut and is having a self-conscious stage. (Unlikely, but still an option.)
2) He feels guilty for something... like unfaithfullness. (This is a logical conclusion, but don't jump to it!)
3) The attraction is gone and he's debating on what to do.
4) Something's wrong with his "tools" and he's trying not to let it be known.
5) He's paranoid something bad could happen. This could have been caused by a dream, or something of the sort.
You need to confront him about this. Maybe he's not even realizing that he's doing it? If you hadn't have said you two were married, my first guess was that he was incredibly shy, or new to relationships. Anyway, you two need to discuss this. Ask him what's going on, tell him you're getting rather concerned and you wanted to ask him before you began jumping to conclusions. This could very easily affect a marriage...
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