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writes: I have been in a relationship with my bf for about 3 months now. We spend day and night together for the past 2 months and a month ago he ended up moving away for a different school that he got into, and the deal was that after this summer session i would meet up with him and we would continue our relationship. But ever since he moved away, he hardly calls me, every time I call him he picks up and talks to me as if we're together. He makes no effort into calling me, im just so confused. When we were together he treated me very well and never gave me a reason not to trust him. SO CONFUSED. Is this a sign that I should just let this go? Is he cheating on me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): Thank you everyone for their advices. I call him once every week. If i didn't make the effort of calling, i doubt he would call me. When we were together, we hardly talked on the phone since we were always together, so yes it is true that me and him don't have much to talk about on the phone. But shouldn't he at least make an effort to call me. I did call him on friday and was like, you better buy a calling card and call me, and he was like dont worry, i got you. But he never did call. UGH SO CONFUSED. WHY ARE YOU MEN SO CONFUSING?
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 play it differently, stop calling and let him do the calling. he probably doesn't call becoz you're de one who does most of the calling. logicly speaking, there may not be any need for him calling if that's your 'job'. it may not necessarily meant that he is cheating since you don't know that..... just don't be too available to him that he takes it for granted.. let us know
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 He's probably not cheating on you. It's as Jen86 said - a lot of guys just don't like calling. Hell, I'm a lass and I don't call people either. I just can't be bothered, or it doesn't occur to me. Your lad could well be the same - it's a lot more satisfying to see your significant other in person.
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