A
female
age
51-59,
*lfied
writes:Help, I am quite confused. I like this guy and thinks he likes me too but he is too complicated to read. We've known each other for a while but at a distance. Recently we met at a function and got to chat then I realised I like him and decided to get to know him better. Strangely, I find myself missing him although we are not close and we hardly talk; but he tells me he misses me too all the time. But what he means by that, I cant tell because he hardly goes out of his way to follow up with a call or something.He is currrently out of the country working and when we spoke over the telephone before he left, he told me he will miss me. His reply to my email after he left ended with 'I miss you'. Recently I did some work for him and he emailed me to say he will give me a good kiss when he returns or sees me.He passes comments like call me if you miss me and I dont mind having you in my bed all nite.My problem is he never emails me till I email him then he replies, sometimes he wont answer his phone when I call him. He doenst make me feel like he is really interested in me.My current puzzle is this"in a conversation with him, I jokingly asks him to take me shopping etc and he asks me what the etc stood for, and what I WANT. What does that mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206 +, writes (31 October 2007):
 This is just my opinion but it sounds like he's shy and too insecure to spell out how he feels and what he wants in case you turn around and say that you don't feel the same. He's looking for assurances and for you to wear your heart on your sleeve so that he doesn't have to. Does that make sense? Hope it helps.
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