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writes: My boyfriend is really into rough sex. I've asked him time and time again to calm down but it's like he loses control and starts either biting me or going too hard...I've talked to him and he says he's trying to cool it down but is there anything that I can do to make things less rough?
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reader, bonym  +, writes (16 August 2006):
 oops sorry, that typo was not intentional.
It should say luck and not good lick!! I am so sorry, I is right next to O on the keyboard so its a genuine mistake. xXx
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reader, bonym +, writes (16 August 2006):
My dear, just tell him you dont like rough sex, if he has any sort of love and respect for you, he will honour your feelings and put his desires aside. It almost becomes like abuse if you just put up with something which is hurting you, causing you pain or making you happy. Talk with him. Good lick. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2006): Sounds like another man who is caught up in the world of porn...he honestly believes women like this because it makes him "hot".
I say tell him how you feel.
Chances are you are feeling like you are just a body for him to get off on and that you are starting to hurt over the absence of him; intamacy, bonding and not just Sex.
I agree with Dr. Pete.
Time to address the matter straight out...maybe get some counseling...even then...if he isn't about to change...move on; find that loving and attentive man, he's out there.
*hugs*
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reader, LiLKiss +, writes (16 August 2006):
 if he cares about you he will try to change himself and not be so selfish and try new things with u that you will both enjoy and if you see that he wont and isnt changing you should do soemthing about it like dump him caz if talking isntt helping action does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2006): There is only so many times you can tell someone they are doing something you don't like... And no, there is nothing else you can do to make things less rough. Telling him you don't like it should be enough.
Maybe it's ultimatum time; unless it's something you are happy to "put up" with?
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