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writes:I'm a 14 year old girl whos in love. at least, i think its love, ive never felt for anyone like i do for him, he doesnt just give me butterflies, he weakens my knees and melts me, he sends shivers up my spines and i actually care for him. enough to help him hurt me. lets call him... tommy.see, he loves my best friend "janiey". he would do anything for her. she told him to die, she didnt mean it, but that night he was in hospital after hurting himself. he had panic attacks when her friends joked with him twice and told him janiey was making out with tommy's friend. tommys really paranoiad. Me being me, i want tommy to be happy. He knows i love him, and he said if he wasnt after janiey hed go out with me probabaly. He will only go out with eve though. anyways, tommy asked me to pretend that i dont love him anymore, which isnt true cause i love him lots. but im going along with it cause i knwo im the only reason janiey is holding back. hopefully she will go out with him when she thinsk i have no feelinsg for him, and she would go out with him cause shes fallig for it and told me that she did love him a bit. of course, ill be undescribably depressed, but if tommy stops trying to kill himself and is happy then is it worth it?i love him, so am i doing right by trying to keep him happy and oding thsi for him? even though its killing me. and the fact that me and janiey are best frends means she will tell me everything about tommy and her and them kissing and romantic moments etc..i dont want to turn be like i used to be when i was depressed, but i cant tell her not to tell me cause itl give it away :(thankyou - ro
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reader, EpicRAWR +, writes (11 March 2009):
EpicRAWR is verified as being by the original poster of the question as in i am helping him be iwth my best friend even though its practically killing me.
an il try not to do anything stupid .
but i guess i cant do anything :/
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reader, SlackersACE1  +, writes (11 March 2009):
Sis, this doesn't sound like a good start to (Or any stage of) a relationship. Tommy sounds a little unstable, and you really don't need wild drama like that at your age. The best thing you can do is get Tommy some real help. You clearly care for him deeply, don't let him do those foolish things. More importantly don't you do anything foolish either, That doesn't help anyone.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (10 March 2009):
 I think "TOMMY" needs professional help!(from a psychiatrist) and what do you mean by "i actually care for him. enough to help him hurt me" why does he need help to hurt you and in what sense?
I'm a little concerned with this post, I'm not sure if the pair of you are in danger being with one another, with you both sounding so depressed!
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