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writes:is it possible for a guy who used to be in love with you, but now loves you like a sister, to ever fall in love with you again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): See. the thing is... just like a guy says that a wife can remind him of his mother, that is the same with the sister complex. You are cool and easy to talk to so easy to talk to and chill with like a sister. The romance persay was not there because he saw you as a friend only, give him a reason to look at him differently. Or as girls tend to do stop chasing him or wanting him to come back if he does not come after you than get over him, if he does than you decide what you want before your heart breaks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlet me add more. i was pushing him away for a month so when i finally opened up to him it was too late. he thought i had "changed" so he was no longer in love with me because of my "new" personality. when in reality i was just acting stupid. so if i stop pushing him away, and he sees that, there could be a chance. its not as of he woke up one day and thought heeey im not attracted to you anymore.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 September 2010):
I'm with Brownwolf. The truth is (and you can take this from a man), once a man starts to see you as a sister, you're way to into the 'friend zone'. I'm afraid the truth is, what you two had won't be coming back, and was never meant to be. That's why it ended, and you're now a friend to him.
You need to be moving on.
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reader, Manya  +, writes (2 September 2010):
Keep him as a friend - for now! He may be the best friend you ever had, a friend for life! I knew a boy who dated a girl, broke up with her, remained friends with her, dated someone else, decided that they didn't want to be a boyfriend to the new girl, and wound up dating the first girl again! A high school story. BUT while he was dating the second girl, she went out with a new guy, too. But that didn't work out for her either! so they wound up back together. Anything CAN happen, so even if your heart is aching, just be cool. Look around for someone else - I have a feeling you can fall in love again! Don't let this guy take you for granted.
Good luck & best wishes,
Manya
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (2 September 2010):
You want to go backwards because??
Don't you want to move forward with your life? Or do you feel that he is the only guy that would love you?
If you keep waiting to fall back in love, you will never meet the guys waiting to fall in love with you.
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reader, 0occoo +, writes (2 September 2010):
 There is always a chance that will happen if he's been in love with you before, but you don't know what the future holds.
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