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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Me and this guy been friends for 5 months now. And I wanted to be more then that. I found out that he liked me but then got over me. He found out I had a thing for him. I went to his volleyball game and his friend told me i creeped him out by coming. But he's known for making things up. After that i'v been trying to talk to him. Since then he never replies back to my texts and we have little conversations. I love him so much. I never cried over a guy before and one that I have so much in common with. I just can't seem to let him go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2013): "I just can't seem to let him go"
That's exactly the problem. A guy needs to feel he is in control of his life. When a girl attaches herself to him and won't let go, he no longer feels in control and freaks out.
When you went to his volleyball game, you made him feel that you wanted to be known as his girl.
Just let go and be nice to him. He will take you.
Good luck :)
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reader, raiders +, writes (4 May 2013):
 He probably accepted you as a friend and thought this is where you wanted to keep it in the friendship level. I suggest you talk to him let him know how you feel and if things can't progress from here at least you were able to clear your thought and know exactly where you stand.
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