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writes:Can someone please give me their opinion? I met this boy in my biology class and he is a grade older than me. Hes really nice, and cute.. he always makes me laugh. For months we just talked in school but for the past week we have been texting and on aim everyday. im not the clingy type at all so beleive me when i say that this kid texts me first 80 percent of the time, he asks me to sign on so we can talk, and when i have to sign off he asks why and then begs me to stay. He asked me the other day if i wanted to hang out just me and him, and i said that i would. He also told me that he though i was so pretty and nice and that he loved to talk to me. SO for the first few days, i thought this kid was perfect. Then last night he decided to tell me that he hung out with girls this weekend and they all want to go out with him sooo bad. But i know for a fact that its a lie because i talk to his friends. I find that he lies to me alot over stupid stuff for no reason. So then i asked him why sometimes it seems like he cares about me and then other times he doesnt? I didnt think it was a mean question but he freaked out on me and said he was too good for anyone. So then just a few mintues later he said.. "can we still hang out? and if not then ill understand :( :(. " so bascially, i am so confused right now. This boy goes from mean to nice in a matter of minutes. its driving me crazy how full of himself he is too. If anyone out there could give me advice, thatd be great because i dont know if i should continue talking to this kid anymore.. and how i should go about it tommorow when i have to go to school and see him.
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reader, ambrosia44 +, writes (8 March 2009):
I think that he was trying to feel you out, maybe see if you would get jealous that he was hanging out with others. If you got offended, he knows you like him, if not, then you are just a friend. I would ask him if he is interested in you, and if he is, then you tell him that little white lies will not help him keep you. If you like him, try it out, but DO NOT let him continue to lie. Impressing a girl is one thing, but it can be carried into something else if it is allowed to go on.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (8 March 2009):
 his just trying to impress u..maybe his joking about saying he was too good for anyone,some guys just like to impress..i think that if u like him u should hang out wit him.but if u feel somethings wrong then dont
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