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writes:yea hi am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 going on 16 this month.before we started going out he smoked weed all the time and then he told me he quit.but he still dose it once in a while and its not the fact that he dose it that bothers me, it's the fact that he lies about it or just dosent tell me. I find out by myself and it really bothers me because i want him to stop but i dont want to nag i dont want to get annoying either but what should i do? give him an altimatum? give up something he dosent like? help i dont want to push this boy away but if he keeps on lying about smoking hes going to push me away. Reply to this Question
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 ok what he does with his life is his choice you either live with it or dont.. you cannot give him an altimatum my bofriend did and in the end i resented him for it and we split a 1 year after it although ours was smoking and not weed..reason he doesnt want to tell you is he is either lying or he doesnt want to tell you because he know he shouldnt do it and it would upset you.. as they say what they dont know wont hurt them..if you want this to change you either have to change or yes say i know your smoking again and how about we both give up something together ? other than that it is his choice to give up and if he doesnt want to then that is it.. sorry.. good luck in the future aphexy xx
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