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writes:Your Open Question:Why is he doing this? am so hurt:( he broke my heart:(? I loved my ex bf so much. I thought we were happy and in love. He use to tell me he loves me everyday. Then he started acting weird and broke up with me.After the break up whenever I'd ring him to find out why he dumped me he'd get really angry and make me feel even more hurt and won't tell me. So I stopped speaking to him for a month.Then he contacted me saying he wants us to be friends cos he's moved on, got a ***** buddy cos he doesn't want a relationship and wants me to move on too.How can he be so selfish and so hurtful:( he says he's been seeing her for 2months now. and we've been broken up for 2months too.I can't be his friend. This hurts me too much:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): I have been through all of this before and all i can say is being friends with someone you are cut up about never works. If you two stay friends he will know he can get away with it, and at the same time it will only hurt more for you when it comes to moving on.i know im not aware of the situation but i myself have spent the past three years making the very same mistake. Staying with someone like that has a permanent mental effect on your health and mentality. There are so many sweet guys out there who deserve you and could never treat you wrong and you are a million times better than a guy like that. I think i speak for everyone when i say ditch him, ive done all this before and theres not a day that goes by where i dont wish id walked away at the first chance. The hurt will leave your heart quicker if you dont keep in contact. Make another post letting us know what you're gonna do sweetheart. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): Im going thorugh the same exact situation except I dont know if my ex has moved on yet but he probably has. he left me on mothers day with NO reason!! just walked away i am heart broken and it feels like someone literally shred my heart.. its been three weeks still havent heard from him and i thought we were in love we both got our names tattood on eachother and everything..look my point is in this life we never really know anybody even when we think we do. people tend to play with people emotions and its so wrong. I am sorry you're going through this and you need to not be friends with him!! its too hard to just move on when people say move on..they do not understand how hard it really is when you truly deeply love someone..you have to just try to get the thought out your head cause i know you think about him every minute of everyday because I do with my ex and its only been 3weeks but the pain of not knowing and understanding what went wrong is worse than just a break up. you have to take things at your own pace, dont listen to nobody but yourself right now because only you know him and what you feel sweety... its ok to feel pain and cry and all that..time heals nothing to me because the more time passes it just does.t hurt as bad but love stays when you truly inlove..it will get easier but also you will learn from this that some people just cant be trusted and sometimes you have to really take time to know someone before you get your heart involved. I hope you feel better soon but he sound like a jerk and he moved on right after? thats crazy and insulting..but you should not feel bad because you did nothing wrong so dont think you did ok!! he is the problem and people like that dont deserve your heart, your tears or your time.. take time to heal your heart and then love yoursrlf enough to take time to meet someone who will truly love you back...I hope this helps a little
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): He broke your heart, he hurt you, move on you deserve so much better than this creep believe me, he will only break it again if you take him back. let his creepy arse go!!!! and forget him.
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