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30-35,
*oeshelikeme
writes:I'm not very good at this... but there's this guy I don't know anything about him other than that he's in one of my classes, lives in the same dorm as me, and I pass him Monday, Wednesday, and Friday on my way to class. It seems like he's interested in me, but I just can't tell. He's always looking over at me. As he's approaching me and my way to class I can see him looking at me. Or if he hasn't noticed me yet, I feel like he's looking for me. But I don't know, maybe that's just me being hopeful. In class, right before he leaves the room after class and if I'm still in there, I've caught him looking back at him a few times. Also, he always get to class before me. So whenever I walk in, he's always looking at me. And one time, after I had sat down, I noticed he had been looking at me. And so he walked over to his friend who was only a few seats away to talk to him and then left to the bathroom or something. But again, he had looked back at me right before he left the classroom. And during class, he'll look back at me a few times and it's not even like he's trying to hide it. There was also another time in the elevator, I was with a bunch of my girl friends, and he had gotten in. But all of us girls were on the sides of the elevator. So he was kind of stuck in the middle of all of us. One of the girls had said hi to him, but then it was just silent. I looked at him for a few seconds after she said hi, but he didn't look at me. So then to make it less awkward, I looked away at my friend. And from the corner of my eye, I could tell that he was looking at me, and he kept looking at me. But then the elevator door opened and we all got out. But as we were walking to my car, he had taken out the trash, which was behind us. I looked back, and he was looking back at us, at me. I feel like he's interested, but I just don't know. He either will look away once I look back at him, or just hold the stare for a few seconds. I need help. I think he's cute and would be interested in him but is he interested or not? And what does his constant looking back at me mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): If you are both with friends all the time it may be that he hasn't had a chance to talk to you. Could you find some way of being on your own for a few minutes, maybe in a corner of the room, so that he can come over and talk to you if he wants to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): Maybe he is wondering whether you are interested too.Positive signs are definitely there.If he is from old school he would prefer to do the pursuing.So wait to understand him before you ask him out.You can start responding by smiling at him.A smile works wonders in a relationship.He will smile back.The next step is say hi.He would say hi too.Then begin by speaking something about the college?Some competition,some departmental function.Slow and steady wins the race any time.
The toughest thing in a courtship is to wait.Rome was not built in a single day.All the best,Dear
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