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female
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30-35,
*mber09
writes:Earlier this year this guy and i started talking. He is an amazing guy and i fell for him hard. About a month into evrything he decided that he needed to go back to his ex that he was dating earlier that yr..they had a long realtionship and he said he was still in love with her. About a month ago he came back to me and had said they had broke up and we started talking again.I should have been on my guard and not went right back to him but i did...Now he has again said he wants to take a break and work things out with her( which is what he said last time before he wen back to her). This time is not as easy as last time because this time because i fell in love with him. He has now left me heartbroken and of all things he wants to stay friends. It is is just so hard. His ex treats him awful and she cheats on him. I just dont understand how he can go back to someone like that. He is also going to college with me in a month so i will have to see him everyday. I have a feeling that when we get back in school..he will do the same thing to me esp since his ex is still a senior and will not be with him and i next yr at college. What should i do when he tries to come back? I want to be with him so bad but i dont want to have m heart shattered again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): Leave him.do you really want to get into a relationship with him again then be dumped for someone else a while later?no of course you dont.its his mistake leaving you for someone whos a cheater but its his choice.you dont want to be stuck with someone like that.give him a shock and dont speak to him again or just point blank refuse when he asks and shut the door on him! dont speak to him for a while and no doubt he will go back begging to his ex but hey if he wants to go back to her then thats his problem.dont stick yourself with the hurt from this guy.find someone new.
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