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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hellppp me please!!Well i really dont no what to do about my boyfriend. All my mates think i should dump him. well i better tell you whats happend.He broke up with his ex girl friend because she did'nt treat him well and he said he liked me, so a few days after he broke up with her he asked me out and i liked him so i said yes.A week after being together he went on holiday and was going to be gone at least 21 days.the day after he left i heard that he had cheated on me, by his ex girl friend and aparently cheated on me with her, so i left him a message saying i need to talk and when he came online a few days after he denyed it all, saying she is lying to break us up so i give him another chance.then his ex girlfriend keeps saying she can prove it etc. but she hasnt got any evidence so i belived him!then a few days beore he was expected to come back off holiday she said that he was on msn trying to get back with her but she dosnt want anything to do with him. so i asked her to send me the convo. but she would'nt so i guessed that she was lying so i didnt mention anyhing to my boyfriend.My brother told me that my boyfriend was off holiday on the tuesday, but i was talking to him on tuesday and he didnt tell me. so i was like what the hell.? Then my brother told me a few days later than my boyfriend hadgone to london with another lass. and i am close to my brother so i belive him because he wouldnt want to hurt me. I told my best mate. and then when my boyfriend finally came on like nearly one week after he was supose to be back he seemed to have a go at me saying like hi im back not that you would care though and i was like of course i care i missed you loads and he was just like yeah w.e and didnt speak to me so i asked him about wether he went to london and he started saying okay well then WHO DID I GO TO LONDON WITH THEN!! i was like sorry thats just what u heard. and he said he only said it to one person as a joke to see if he could trust her.but i asked me brother who he heard it from and he said a diffrent person. so why did he tell more than one person ????i also heard that he was going to dump me after his holiday but he said he loved me and that he didnt want to or he would have done it the day we spent togther before his holiday. which is true i supose.So i just dont know what to do. my mates say i should stop giving him more and more chances. then today he said that he will talk to me when i actually decide to come out ... but how was i supose to go out with him when he only got back from holiday yesterday and had school today and my after school club till 6. then i tried to speak to him online but he wasnt on till 10 and he said it as if hed kept asking me to go out but he didnt at all. so im just confused.all my mates say i deserve to be treated better and he takes me for advantage because i give him chance after chance and that i should just dump him, but i really like him and i dont know what i should do? help please ? whhat should i do? or what should i say to him? im really confused what to do?thank you for your time!. :)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 April 2009):
He does sound like he's messing you around.
With all this crap going round then I really don't think you should trust him. You know this is never going to get better. It's going to carry on with more and more rumours.
I would dump him if I were you. You don't need this kind of drama in your life.
I know you like him but it's a hard lesson that all girls need to go through... liking him is not enough reason to put up with him.
You are worth better and if you learn to put up with guys now then you'll end up in a LOT of bad relationships when you are older.
Have a read of all the questions from older women who stay with men who do HORRIBLE things to them, just because they love him.
Never stand for this kind of thing. Dump him.
Good Luck!! xx
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