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writes: Hello, I'm in a bit of a pickle. I've been seeing a man who is involved with another women for the past 2 years. The worst part being he is the Managing Director of the company I work for. When we first starting dating he worked in another office but due to his promotion he is in my face a lot more now. I love him and he loves me, but he wont leave his girlfriend, if he does she will never let him see there 7 yr old girl again. I have met her (at company do's) and she treats him really badly, sort of like a dog (the way she speaks to him, trys to show him up in front of people). He is 34, im 21. Within the last 6 months I have started dating another unattached guy and I think its finally time for me to let go. Im scared to because I love the other guy so much but I know there is no future for us. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (19 January 2006):
 You can't spend your life waiting for him, as he's not prepared to sacrifice anything for you. There are ways he could see his daughter through the courts so that's not the full reason. What will happen if this goes on for many more years then he breaks it off? He's got a little family to go back to and you end up with nothing.
Move on, get meeting other people and show him what he missed out on. Unless he is prepared to make the sacrifice and stop having the best of both worlds, don't bother with him anymore. He's not worth wasting your life over. Tell him, it's all or nothing.
Good luck
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 January 2006):
 No future here. Bite your lip and let go, you'll be allright in a bit and you'll realize you did the right thing. Good Luck.
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reader, crazy_86 +, writes (19 January 2006):
im sorry to say this but i think you should let go.your so young and if this unattached guy is what you have been looking for to take the time to be with you then just turn away.but the pain is you cant help who you fall in love with.to be honest you cant stand there and watch him get treated like a dog and see him with hie girlfriend.it will hurt even more the longer youre with him. crazy_86
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