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writes:im a girl;; im not saying my name. I'm 14 years old and I have already fallen in love with a 24 year old. Yes, it's sick but i dont know.. there's something about him. He works at a restaraunt and my mom noticed I had been going there alot... she also remebered i thought one of the guys there was cute and thought we'd both have something going on. She sent my brother to the restaraunt and the 24 yr old denied he knew me. Now, im embarassed to go to the restaraunt and show my face in fron of all those people that work there because i knew them well. And my brother basically yelled at everyone there. Since that happened I haven't been at the restaraunt for at least 2 months now and i haven't seen him since. I miss him terribly i can't get him out of my head. We've shared moments together.. and i want to know if he thinks of me. He recently got an operation on his knee on dec. 24 and he hasn't been working since. I may be going to the restaraunt jan. 10 because of a bball game; he should be better by then. I just want to know.. what do you think will happen when i go to the restaraunt.. and will he take another chance with me or will he just say forget it u almost got me in trouble? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): Well...A Big Brother Only Does These Things Because They Care About You...Im Going Out With Someone Who Is In The Army And He Is Seventeen, Whereas I Am Only 13 But 14 On January The 20th...My Boyfriend However Is 18 In March...My Brother Is 21 And All He Has Ever Told Me Is That He Would Do Anything To Protect Me. Your Brother Is Only Protecting You. Adults And Your Family's First Thoughts Would Be...Hes Too Old The First Thing On His Mind Is Sex...So Talk To Your Brother...Tell Him How You Feel...If That Doesnt Work Then You Could Ither Go out In Secret Or Just Wait Until You Are Old Enough...Id Advise You To Forget About Him And Move On...But Its Not My Feelings...Go With What Your Heart Wants..x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): Hi anon
Your 14 persueing a 24yr old, your family has caught on to it and put a stop to it (well done) before anything happens and YOU come on and ask if he'll take another chance with you!! Does he want you mother, brother the cops going to the place he works next time? And I am sure your mom has warned you to stay clear of the restaraunt as wll you should.
Time for a big wake up call, date someone your own age as dating older guys will get you and them in big trouble.
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reader, steve107  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 I hate to be so blunt but you really have to let this one go. the age gap is an issue but the fact is youre 14 and he is 24. you can't legally have sex and if you did and someone found out he would go to jail. I know love can sometimes cloud our vision of reality but am sure if you thought about it hard enough you would relise that it would never work. Try getting a decent guy closer to your own age that you be with and that can love you properly too. good luck babe
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