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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone. I have been in a relationship with this guy for about 4 months. We met on the internet. We finally met. We clicked on every cylinder. This guy had become my everything. We talked about getting married one day, having our children come together as a family and truly not wanting to hurt one another and also abstaining from sex until the time was right. He was a true gentleman. Then one day he about virtually stopped calling me but when we talked everything seemed okay. I eventually got upset with this and confronted him with it. And he said he would change, but he still did the same thing. Has he changed his mind about everything? He really hurt me by doing this and I don't know why. He is still telling me that he loves me but yet acting distant. Our kids met us (him and me) and know that we're dating. I'm the type that don't want my kids to see who I'm with unless it was turning serious, and he knows this. What's up with him? Could he have gone from love to loveless?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007): My favorite motto that i truly live by is "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS"
If he is telling you he loves you, but then isnt showing you, to me his words are meaningless! It most likely wasnt anything you did or said...he probably is having a change of heart.
He said he would change? If hes just not feeling anything anymore, how is he going to change that?
Sit down and have a very serious talk with him. Ask him if what he is saying to you the honest truth. To me any guy can tell a girl he loves her, its what he does to show her that love!
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reader, DV1 +, writes (3 June 2007):
 For all you know, he could be going through a death in the family, or something really bad. Instead of thinking of it in terms of yourself, try looking at the broader picture. Instead of wondering, pick up the phone and call him, or go and see him. He may need you in a major way right now.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (3 June 2007):
 From experience most calling does die down abit after a short time, i don't think you should be too concerned about it as you said he is telling you he loves you and he knows your feelings about the children and them meeting him, if he stops calling you altogether and starts avoiding your calls then i would start to worry.
TAKE CARE. XX.
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