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writes: I have a crush on this guy in my class in college.He is very laid back, down to earth, kind, sensitive but he is very much too laid back if ya know what I mean. He's always wrapped up in his own sort of world and doesn't notice the fact that someone in the class likes him.How am I going to get this guy to notice me?He seems to be metaphorically miles away!I really like him...He has qualities that not many guys have and I really like him.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 Perhaps if he's oblivious to the fact you like him, like so many guys are, they don't pick up on your signals or body language. Then you need to pipe up and tell him you like him. For guys you have to literally spell it out.
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reader, KlassyKirsty +, writes (15 January 2012):
 This guy seems to be overly comfortable in his *own bubble*, which can be referred to as his comfort zone, which he may be reluctant to leave. If he is content in the way in which things in his life are looking e.g academic and social reasons, hobbies etc and he is not on the dating horizon, then it is best to leave him be.
If however, he is attainable and is seeking a gf, then break the ice cuz he sounds pretty timid, and ask him out for a low key casual outing, such as fun activities that he may enjoy e.g tennis, movies he prefers and u can build upon his topic/ur topic of interest and see if the relationship will develop from there :) :) good luck xx
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 Invite him out for coffee or for a drink. Once your alone, given that he does accept your invite; maybe you can just talk to him for awhile, get to know him before you take it any further. Go slow. I sense this guy isn't really mature enough to jump into a relationship. He's a late bloomer so not likely to have a clue about you for awhile.
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