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writes:Is it realistic to suspect a guy really fancies me if he occasionaly touches my nose, grabs my neck in fun and looks physically relaxed when I am near. He is always sensitive to my feelings and seems to look after me but at other times he seems tetchy around me and jumpy, asks me to 'go' politely and puts off opportunites he could have time with me. Very confusing, but I would like some male opinion on such behaviour as I love being near this man but I am afraid of misreading his signals and get rejected as he is senior to me at work and my home depends on my employment there. I am not referring to an office affair or anything, just a genuine attraction and a hope that we can be friends and maybe more later. My intuition says he feels the same as me, but then he does something that makes me think it is all in my head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): He does fancy you but hasn't got it right up to now. Just be patient and give him time he will probably ask you out in the future. I think you need to just keep doing the things you do and it will be great.
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reader, kenny +, writes (8 December 2006):
 I would say that this guy fancies you, he is flirting with you, giving you small signs that he likes you by way of touches.
Does you both share longs glances atal?
I am in a similar sort of situation, i really fancy this girl i work with, and i am senior to her. We have done some major flirting which has been reciprocated both ways. But sometimes i ignore her and don't even look at her.
If this guy is anything like me he blows hot and cold because he is crazy about you which he has shown you through flirtatious gestures, but also knows that because it is a working environment the relationship can not proceed any further than flirting. I would say get this guy when he is alone, maybe making a cup of tea or something and casualy ask him out for a Chritmas drink, so that you can get to know each other somewhere where there are not colleagues overhearing your every word.
I hope this has been helpful. and all the very best of luck, let me know how it goes.
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