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He is ready to break up with his gf for me, but I'm worried about my reputation. I also need tips on how to react if he approaches me sexually, as I don't want him to break up with me if I reject him!

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Question - (28 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2008)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *hicky writes:

dear agony aunt,

i have 2 problems and have no idea how to deal, first of all i like this guy who likes me back and he is prepared to brake up with his girlfriend for me but i am afraid of what others might think, lets put it this way; i always aim higher and what people think really matters to me, i am 14, this guy drinks and smokes but him being a bad influence is not a problem as i can handle that, i am also scared of what my parents will say and how they will react. so what do i do? he is a really nice guy but people just dont seem to see it.

secondly i have never made out with a guy althou i have had several chances but every time i just get to nervous and avoid it or reject the guy which ussually leads to him breaking up with me because he thinks i dont like him or gets too tired of the rejection, so i dont want to look stupid or do something wrong and get a bad reputation, can anyone help me out with this, i have checked out all the sites with help on this and none of it seems to work, any inside info from some1 with experience thAT can guide me every single step of the way? please it would be alot of help.

CHICKY xoxo

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A female reader, chicky South Africa +, writes (29 September 2008):

chicky is verified as being by the original poster of the question

in reply to spirit of iona

i do want to make out for all the right reasons and have so for a while now i just feel ashamed of his experience and my inexperience. also i know how to handle the bad habbits as i have handled such situations before

thanks for the help

CHICKY

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