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writes:I'm 24 years old and have never been in a really serious relationship before, I was always too busy having fun to worry about it and I think I got myself in some bad habits (I had a three date rule, after that I wouldn't see the guy again). A year ago I started seeing a friend of mine, it lasted about three months and wasn't serious just some fun.. I was addicted to him, my rules didn't matter anymore, he was so hot I just wanted to jump him every time I saw him. But he treated me badly at times and was a bit of a loser (on drugs, I always had to pay etc.) so it ended and wasn't a big deal. It has taken me ages to start dating again (I was hurt even thought I hated to admit it) but he changed my view on relationships and I feel like I'm now ready to get a bit more settled down with one guy. I met a guy about a month ago and I have seen him twice a week or so since. He's a really sweet guy and I know he'd like to spend even more time with me but I feel like I don't have the same spark with him as I did my ex. He treats me great and I really enjoy spending time with him but sexually it isn't there as much.. we have had some physical problems too, so this is a double question really. He has a really large penis, and maybe I have a small vagina too but we have tried to have sex 3 times now and it twice we couldn't at all, the third time we finally got in it but it hurt so much we couldn't go for long. I feel like a freak with him and I've been with a few guys before but never had this problem. I don't know what to do, I know it sounds bad but I feel like I need to have sex with him to figure out if there is that spark there. If anyone can give me any advice on this I would really appreciate it. Also to add another strange thing, I was giving him oral sex last night and he said he had an orgasm but he didn't cum. I have never heard of that before Is he faking it? Am I not over my ex and that's why I keep comparing the two? Or am I more turned on by guys that are bad for me? What can we do to try and make our sex life work?Is it all just too much trouble????? I know it's heaps of questions but I am so confused!!! I nearly stopped seeing him over this but I do want to give it a fair go!
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