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writes:I've been with my husband for 13yrs. but we only been married for 6 months. Recently he just started driving trucks on the road. he had been gone for two weeks. he lost weight and we were intimate he said that my vagina felt different and that i had been with another man. but i haven't and he want believe other wise his mind is made up that i've been cheating. what can i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just would like to thank every one for his or her response. The truth he's not listening to anything that i have to say because he is stubborn and stuck in his own ways.
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reader, DrSweetlove +, writes (9 November 2009):
Ask him if that is the only reason why he thinks you're cheating. If you're being honest and you haven't that's kind of tricky. Tell him that you want to help him through his paranoia. You can work together like a team or be like 2 separate people. The team approach can help everything. I know what it's like to experience this. I'm 99% sure that my girlfriend WAS cheating on me at the time. I may have been wrong. All I know is that when things get weird like this the only way out is to be brutally honest about everything so you both know what you're working with. Love each other and see if you can come up with rational solutions to your emotional challenge!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): Talk to him and calm him down. Reassure him you are being faithful. Is this the first time he's been away from you for this long? Maybe its the first time in a long time? Being away for a while, including him loosing weight, can make things feel different. You'll have to sit this one out and let him calm down, but if he doesnt want to listen there is little you can do. He needs to trust you and you can't force him to trust you.
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