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writes: My boyfriend came from work and horny as hell (and a bit drunk as well). I hate my breasts because of a brithmark (im thinking about getting it remove) and wont let them because of it. Anyway we were making love and he tored my bra. I wanted to slapped him but instead I cover myself and hide in the bathroom. Then he came and knocked on the door. I find anything to cover myself so I just went open the door a bit. And then he was like "ew whats wrong with your boobs". I started crying infront of him and a long story short I slept at my sister's. Do you think I should dump him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): well it sounds to me like you are very uptight about your birthmark and he didnt respect that. you see he has also posted this event asking if he was an asshole. and i think that you are hurting and confused but he is super sorry and wants you back pretty bad. and he says that your not taking his calls. well i think that u should take one of his calls and talk it over with him. maybe have him come over(if you are comfortable with that) and talk about what happened and how you can fix it. also have him promise to respect your privacy and if he cant do that then i think its time to see other people. but anyway yes it was WAY wrong of him to do that and he shouldnt have done that because he knew that you were sensitve about that. but the bottom line is give him one more chance and if he wants to have sex then just tell him no for a while to make him think about what he did. but he really loves you by the sound of his post and it sounds like you love him but you are just hurting and confused on what to do. lots of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): I know he was an asshole, and more importantly so does he. Its some weird guy ritual that girls just wouldn't understand...
Anyhoo don't be too upet, the guy really loves you and he sounds desperate to get you back.
Give him one more chance. If he blows that one, give him a kick in the balls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): I don't know if you should dump him but that's messed up. He should accept you for who you are and what you look like. I understand you're uncertain on how you look but he shouldn't have said ewww whats that on your boob. I at least think you should talk to him and be like what do you like about me, and also tell him that he should love you for you. If he has no answer, just walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): your boy friend posted the exact same story and hes sounds relly sorry and desperate to have you back, jz think about it, do you want him in ur life? is he worth it?
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