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30-35,
*rimace_pants
writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost five months. We love each other a lot and lately have been doing..more things. It started as the kissing/ making out thing, then we started the hickey thing. Then it was the getting on each other thing, now the undoing the bra thing. I'm pretty sure I'm going to work on the whole undoing the pants thing, maybe something better than that, if you catch my drift. We haven't had sex yet, but there's always the possibility. But lately things have been getting weird. He always acts like he likes to hang out, and he tells me he loves me all the time, but I think it's a guy thing lately. I know guys need their space, but I feel this constant need to talk to him and I'm almost obsessive at times. And I know it drives him nuts sometimes, but I have an anxiety thing so I'm constantly worrying about him being in trouble for something. Anyway, I know guys need their space, and we were in an argument tonight for something I don't even know, so how long do I need to give him space? Please help...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 December 2009):
Next time you're feeling anxious and want to talk to him, go pop in your favorite happy movie and watch it instead of talking to him. Call a friend and hang out. Do anything but call him. If he cares, he will notice your distance and come to you. He can't show you he loves you if you're always showing him first. Let him call or text first at least half the time.
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