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*tar.Aqua
writes:ok.. I met this guy at a pool party I was invited to at his house.. when I saw him I loved his appearance, really attractive to me.. I would say that we both became attracted to each other.. at that pool party, my drinks were all mixed up, I became drunk!!!!! I remember that night we showered, we kissed, we ate, we held hands, almost everything except sex... well we exchanged phone numbers that night and he texted me the next day and the day after and everyday after that.. from the first night we met, I told him about my babygirl at that time 7 months old.. I am not with her father so i'm single... Now, this guy is telling me that he likes me. since we met, we have seen each other at least once every week. Its 4 months now and we still talk every night, still see each other when we could but he never pushes it to have sex... He tells me that before having a relationship, he wants to completely trust me and I believe we are very well getting to know each other..Is it normal for him not pushing the issue with having sex.. what do u think..? Does he prefer me as a friend?
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reader, Star.Aqua +, writes (10 June 2012):
Star.Aqua is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks.... well today we hung out by the sea side.. had a realy fund time jus him and I.. he sang, we hugged, kiss, he played through my beautiful long hair and he jus never mentions sex... I like him, I do but I feel I want more of him now...
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (10 June 2012):
 Wow...this is a wonderful change...a guy not pushing for sex.
Ms. Belize...what's happening here is an old tradition called respecting a woman...you may have heard your parents or grandparents talking about it...I believe this gentleman is just that.....a gentleman. Perhaps you have grown too accustomed to a man groping at your or making sexual advances pretty soon. He respects you have a baby girl and would prefer to get to know you better before he initiates being sexually intimate...is that so bad?
You know he likes you....chill out...enjoy the courtship and the respect. You are a very very very lucky girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2012): Maybe he just likes your personality...last time I checked, that was a good thing. I wouldn't think about it too hard...but if you want sex, then I would just make a move. Sounds like he's waiting for you to do it.
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